45 days and mama

org2 tua kata tempoh pantang 44 hari
hari ni sudah 45 hari
tapi tak sehari pun rasa mcm berpantang
pakai pilis beberapa jam pun dah rasa sakit kepala. serious. rasa bisa.
mama kata pakai pilis utk elak darah putih naik kepala?
opah kata pakai pilis utk jauhkan suami?
rasanya yg opah kata tu betul becos hubby mmg tak tahan bau pilis tu hehe

anyway, secara rasminya, "tempoh pantang" ummi hannan dah berakhir.
and I really appreciate that mama ada to take care of me.
yes me.
no, don't say that I asked her to do it. I never did.really.
but i'm glad she's there for me.

you know when your mum is there masa tempoh "berpantang"
she doesn't only help to take care of your child or cook for your husband or clean the house
she takes care of you, her daughter
she's the only one who pays attention to you while so many others are giving attention to your child

and that is important
VERY IMPORTANT

sbb perasaan  wanita yg lepas bersalin sangat2 fragile. roller coaster i would say
mudah terasa since she had gone through one of the biggest moment of her life

hence I learned
sampai kita tua pun your mum will always care about you
so always appreciate your mum.

p's: thank you mama for taking care of me