There's a reason why 2 people stay together: they give each other something nobody else can

I'm sharing this here for as it is important for Muslims to know the history and why certain things do not seem as it is supposed to be. Readers may also watch Yasir Qadhi Youtube video on  history/seerah of prophet May this benefit all insyaa Allah.

and it's already 2019.  hello readers. i still like to write and share things that i think might be beneficial for people out there. So here I am.   Am actually on 7-day mc following cyst surgery on my scalp. yes, scalp. how did it get there?  i don't know. how long did it take for u to notice the appearance? when it got bigger and multiplied- probably 1-2 years ago how many were they?  7 were they big?  yes, according to my surgeon were they painful?  just one of them, the biggest one how was the surgery? since i was under full GA (ie totally konked out) I would say it was okay haha Plus my surgeon was a pretty funny guy so he made everything seemed smooth Check out Dr Shahrol Azmi at PCMC website how is post surgery then? okay. the pain comes here and there but bearable alhamdulillah how much did it cost you to remove it? RM9k+ since I was admitted for 1 night. Nurse told me it mi...

I've been longing to blog But over the past year, every time I wanted to write and publish, I would ask myself "why am I writing this?Why do I need to tell people this?" I was kinda having my own internal conflict plus there were so many stories last year about the pedophiles and the viral story about the chat groups that share pictures of small children among them that it made me scared So..why am i writing here again? Because..I recently made a self reflection and listed some of the reasons why I wanted to write at first: 1. Peer pressure (blogging was really popular back then and somebody suggested that I do it) 2. To earn extra income from Nuffnang (that somebody told me about this too) but hahahahahah clearly am not getting anything so far 3. I want to polish my writing skills (this is true) 4. I want to share. Somehow some people found my blog and email me personally how my writings /personal experience relate to them and some of them benefited from my r...

There is a right way and a wrong way to get to know someone for marriage.  The wrong way is to get caught up in the excitement and nuance of a budding relationship and in the process completely forget to ask the critical questions that help determine compatibility.  One of the biggest mistakes that many young Muslims make is rushing into marriage without properly and  thoroughly  getting to know someone.  A common myth is that the duration of a courtship is an accurate enough measure of how compatible two people are.  The logic follows that the longer you speak with someone, the better you will know them.  The problem with that premise is that no consideration is given to  how  that time is spent. Increasingly, young Muslim couples are engaging in “halal dating,” which is basically socializing with each other in the company of friends and/or family. This includes going out to dinner, watching a movie, playing some sport or other leisure acti...

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Ad-Dukhaan Chapter 44 verse 10-12 "Then watch for the Day when the sky will bring a visible smoke. Covering the people; this is a painful torment. [They will say], "Our Lord, remove from us the torment; indeed, we are believers." Credit to http://drhar.blogspot.com/2013/06/haze-reminder-from-al-quran.html

Got this from thepinkstillettos Let's figure out who we are gonna be in 2020! You can also get info on various ETP initiatives rolled out for us rakyat. Believe me, this apps is so much fun!! http://etp.pemandu.gov.my/citizen2020/

finally the interview was over yesterday and basically no mood for today as questions and "should have been answers" are still lingering in my mind "why overseas?there are lots of similar courses offered here" "how would you contribute to the government by doing this course?" "what type of exposure are you looking into when the courses offered are only 9-12 months term?" "what's the difference between 1997-98 financial crisis with current euro crisis and why isn't malaysia affected as much as during the 1997-98 crisis?" "what do you plan to do on your dissertation?" still thinking whether my answers were well received by the panels still thinking "arghh..i should have said it this way or that way..it would've sound more concrete bla bla bla.." the panels seem to be more interested with the guy next to me..i think they spent 40 minutes questioning and debating on his research paper alone.. ...

tips for IELTS: get a good sleep and rest the night before the test :) VERY VERY IMPORTANT (i think i may have to repeat the test -___- ) strolling nearby hotel waiting for ummi finishing her test

have you made appointment for your medical check up? With RM500, you get: Full blood count with PBF and ESR Unit ABO and RH typing Lipid profile Liver function test Glucose Renal profile Bone metabolism profile Free Thyroxine (FT4) Hepatitis B Screening Rheumatoid Arthritis (RA) Factor Alpha-feto-protein (AFP) VDRL (RPR) Uric acid Urine test Consultation and physical examination Vision test Pure Tone Audiometry (Hearing assessment) Resting electrocardiogram (ECG) with report Chest x-ray with report you can also get tax exemption from IRB at max RM500 for medical check up done so, why wait? at the registration counter playing with princess while waiting for the next procedure. waiting for daddy we decided to get a medical check up because at this age and with the work stress and everything, you'll never know what's wrong with your body I'm especially concerned with hubby's health because he's always avoiding to see doctor a...

"Cukuplah Allah menjadi Penolong kami dan Allah adalah sebaik-baik Pelindung" (Ali 'Imran:173) Nabi saw bersabda: "Iman terbahagi kepada dua. Separuh dalam sabar dan separuh dalam syukur" (HR Al-Baihaqi- source )

Nabi s.a.w. bersabda: "Orang yang paling sabar antara kamu adalah orang yang memafkan kesalahan orang lain padahal dia berkuasa membalasnya" (Riwayat Ibnu Abiduyya dan Baihaqi)  source  "Dan hendaklah mereka memafkan serta melupakan kesalahan orang-orang itu, tidakkah kamu suka supaya Allah mengampunkan dosa kamu?Dan ingatlah Allah Maha Pengampun lagi Maha Mengasihani". (al-Nuur: 22)

I was having a chit chat with my great granma and she suddenly said "kak long, kahwin ni banyak cubaan...kau jangan sesekali mintak cerai ya?!" I was stunned "kenapa nyang..?" "tak baik..kau kena banyak-banyak sabar.." "kalau hati kita sakit?kalau dia buat jahat?" "takpe..sabar banyak-banyak..jangan menyesal.." and she looked away I was completely shocked why she suddenly raised that subject I guess she was speaking through her own experience Dan apabila kamu menceraikan isteri-isteri (kamu) kemudian mereka (hampir) habis tempoh idahnya maka bolehlah kamu pegang mereka (rujuk) dengan cara yang baik atau lepaskan mereka dengan cara yang baik. Dan janganlah kamu pegang mereka (rujuk semula dengan maksud memberi mudarat, kerana kamu hendak melakukan kezaliman (terhadap mereka); dan sesiapa yang melakukan demikian maka sesungguhnya dia menganiaya dirinya sendiri. dan janganlah kamu menjadikan ayat-ayat hukum Allah itu sebagai ej...

I read in one of my friends FB yesterday that she heard from an ustaz "ciri-ciri orang yang tak solat atau solatnya tidak khusyu' ialah dia cepat marah-marah.." nauzubillah.. Happy friday peeps.. credit to mawarnafastari

having economics background, i understand how complex and difficult some terms and jargons in economic textbooks. and I have not gone into the graphs and curves yet. (yup my marks were not that great) sometimes when hubs asked me questions on economics and finance, i tried so hard to make him understand but in the end he just made this blur look and we both went silent everytime it's either because i'm not good at explanation or i ,too, did not fully understand (sorry dear!) and now, I'm glad there's someone who are kind enough to explain all those in non-economist language check the videos and articles at kopitiamekonomi.com it helps!! just to share links to some of the articles and videos: http://kopitiamekonomi.com/read/talking-national-accounts-gdp-gni-and-what-they-really-mean/