can you please?

i was the one who encouraged hubby to join his new unit since last year
because i have high regards for hubby
i know he's passion about his work
and i truly believe that he stands at par with those people at this new unit
never did i know about how much extra salary or bonus or other benefits this organisation is giving

so please..
stop asking hubby
"how much you are earning..bla bla.."
"how much are they paying staff bonus..bla bla.."
"you must be earning this much and much right?bla bla.."
"can we still befriends with you..? we are no longer your level..bla bla.."

because when that is being asked with a very inapproriate way or with certain reaction
it hurts both of us
it hurts me especially
because i was the one who brought him to this

and because you don't know the difficult times that he went through
or the problems that he's facing in his current job situation
so please just let it go..

bukankah rezeki masing-masing itu telah ditentukanNya?
bukankah kewajipan kita untuk mensyukuri dan tidak membanding-bandingkan?