married couples and pregnancy
lately
i got few people coming to me either personally or through e-mail asking my opinion about pregnancy problems
firstly
I understand
completely
your predicament
be it 2 years, 3 years, 5 or 10 years or marriage
waiting for a child to complete your life seems to be such a long wait
1st year is usually bearable for these couples
things like "haa..belum ada isi lagi?" or "bila nk ada anak..jgn plan2.." seems to be the usual teasing
but entering 2nd year,the pressure suddenly feels heavy on us women
and you suffocate everytime you get those remarks or comments
sometimes you feel like saying "makcik ni takde hal lain ke nak cakap?" or "can you talk about something else?"
but of course, you just smile and walk away or do something to distract that person
if you have additional energy, you'll say things like "belum ada rezeki" or "takpe, honeymoon dulu"
yup, not easy
to wives
make sure that you are not carrying that burden
share with your husbands
although sometimes they don't seem like it, they actually feel the pain
sometimes even more, because they have to act strong and fine in front of you
and if you choose to go to see doctor
you may start from the second year
tell the doctor that you wanna know what's wrong with both of you
(yes, both. give each other support)
because couples who go to see doctors (esp the GPs) in the first year will most likely to get negative feedbacks like "ohh..baru setahun..belum lagi..sabar la" and chase you away
and, do some surveys and ask around about those O&G specialists that you want to see to minimise your emotional impact and get as much info as you can from the doctor
if you don't have any idea on private practitioners, I would recommend going to LPPKN Jalan Raja Laut, KL (nearby Sogo)
they've got good doctors and really nice staffs there
and if you've already know what's wrong with you
go for treatment. IUI. IVF. whatever that suits you
if the doctor says nothing is wrong
then just believe in Him
He's giving you some time
or something else
It's just a matter for you to realise what it is
i got few people coming to me either personally or through e-mail asking my opinion about pregnancy problems
firstly
I understand
completely
your predicament
be it 2 years, 3 years, 5 or 10 years or marriage
waiting for a child to complete your life seems to be such a long wait
1st year is usually bearable for these couples
things like "haa..belum ada isi lagi?" or "bila nk ada anak..jgn plan2.." seems to be the usual teasing
but entering 2nd year,the pressure suddenly feels heavy on us women
and you suffocate everytime you get those remarks or comments
sometimes you feel like saying "makcik ni takde hal lain ke nak cakap?" or "can you talk about something else?"
but of course, you just smile and walk away or do something to distract that person
if you have additional energy, you'll say things like "belum ada rezeki" or "takpe, honeymoon dulu"
yup, not easy
to wives
make sure that you are not carrying that burden
share with your husbands
although sometimes they don't seem like it, they actually feel the pain
sometimes even more, because they have to act strong and fine in front of you
and if you choose to go to see doctor
you may start from the second year
tell the doctor that you wanna know what's wrong with both of you
(yes, both. give each other support)
because couples who go to see doctors (esp the GPs) in the first year will most likely to get negative feedbacks like "ohh..baru setahun..belum lagi..sabar la" and chase you away
and, do some surveys and ask around about those O&G specialists that you want to see to minimise your emotional impact and get as much info as you can from the doctor
if you don't have any idea on private practitioners, I would recommend going to LPPKN Jalan Raja Laut, KL (nearby Sogo)
they've got good doctors and really nice staffs there
and if you've already know what's wrong with you
go for treatment. IUI. IVF. whatever that suits you
if the doctor says nothing is wrong
then just believe in Him
He's giving you some time
or something else
It's just a matter for you to realise what it is
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