jagalah hati

A friend told me that you need to sacrifice and compromise A LOT when you have a child which happens to be the eldest grandchild

“banyak hati ko kena jaga..” he said

Yup..yup..so true..

My family, my in-laws..and especially hubby..while at the same time making sure that your child is protected in every way..and make sure conflicts (if any) doesn’t affect love between all of us

Believe me, it’s tough

I can sincerely say that I really juggle between these priorities..and sometimes I do miss out some things..which may hurt hubby, parents and in-laws..

And of course I didn’t mean it at all..

Hubby has been really really supportive and taking care of both Hannan and I

And when I focus more on Hannan’s needs I tend to forget his

At this time around, when your child seems to cling at you almost every hour, u don’t have the time to to do the house chores (I really salute those who manage!)

So the least you can do is giving him your biggest support when he’s really feeling down because of work

But I forget even to that extend

Hence hubby dear, I’m really sorry for that..

(love you)