There's a reason why 2 people stay together: they give each other something nobody else can

and it's already 2019.  hello readers. i still like to write and share things that i think might be beneficial for people out there. So here I am.   Am actually on 7-day mc following cyst surgery on my scalp. yes, scalp. how did it get there?  i don't know. how long did it take for u to notice the appearance? when it got bigger and multiplied- probably 1-2 years ago how many were they?  7 were they big?  yes, according to my surgeon were they painful?  just one of them, the biggest one how was the surgery? since i was under full GA (ie totally konked out) I would say it was okay haha Plus my surgeon was a pretty funny guy so he made everything seemed smooth Check out Dr Shahrol Azmi at PCMC website how is post surgery then? okay. the pain comes here and there but bearable alhamdulillah how much did it cost you to remove it? RM9k+ since I was admitted for 1 night. Nurse told me it mi...

Happy new year. This is the first year that Hannan is in lower elementary. Little did I know that this first week really drive us exhausted as there are so many things to prepare and think about especially when your child is a picky eater who strongly refuses to eat unfamiliar food. So far, she did well and managed to stay calm and listens to instructions in class (of course I stalked on my daughter and no it's not creepy) Her first complaint was she didn't like staying in school for long hours (8am to 5 pm) and that she missed us. (we miss u too sayang) Suphie joined her in the new environment and so far doesn't seem to have any problem as she's only there for halfday although she is no longer with her big sister in the same class. She adapts really well. Hopefully Hannan and Suphie will have fun in this school. Insyaa Allah

Warning: there is no advert on any slimming product or fitness regime in this post. I just want to share / provide alternative perspective on fighting with weight issues. I am not a person with the best body or the best weight. Believe me. But I have struggles too. for me personally, I started since standard 3 since that boy that I secretly had crush on called me "DONUT" because of my fair, well rounded face. I still remember the way he was standing next to the field, shouting, calling me "Donut!Donut" as if "cheering" for me during my 4x4 relay. He was the one who started it. He made the 10 year old girl me at that time, believed that I have some serious issues with my body. Then at high school, of course I was still carrying those round cheeks, and I was not the skinny type either. I think my waist was 28 at that time. I was in plump category. I was so embarassed with my face I never lipat my tudung. The body issues also became serious towar...

As i said earlier, I want this blog to be a platform where people can find info so I want to share as much useful info that I can over here. We had experience with 3 paeds so far namely: 1. Dr. Anna Padma She was originally Suphie's paed during her birth, but ever since we got to know her, we chose to see her everytime for almost everything haha. Our kids love seeing her, talking to her and playing with so many toys in her room. All smiles and friendly all the time. Whenever we felt that our child need to be admitted, we wanted our child to be admitted under her care cos she is flexible and full of empathy as she understands parents' worries, concerns and hardships. She also made us realise that as parents, we need to be patient and remember that despite all the medications and treatments, any kind of illness will take its own course and most of them actually may not need strict medical intervention. https://www.princecourt.com/doctors/dr-anna-padmavathy-soosai/ 2. Dr. ...

I woke up one morning feeling terribly disturbed by a dream Performed solat Subuh which Hannan later joined me. After prayer, tears started to roll down my cheeks and all I wanted that time was a warm hug Hannan: What's wrong ummi? Me: I had a bad dream Hannan: What was it about? I couldn't say because the dream was about me being in a polygamy marriage. How can I explain to her? Although it was just a dream but the emotions were so intense. I had a perception before that all men who chose to have more than 1 wife is a really, really BAD guy.  Because I felt that those men are guided by their lustful desires and there is never a genuine shari'ah needs (like to help a widow and etc) in our modern days to actually validate a second marriage. But slowly, now, my worldview is changing. Not to say that I encourage polygamy but I was late to realise that Allah validates it because He knows humans are weak. Men are weak because they cannot contain their needs and desire...

I have been thinking about my emotions lately I think I have turned into a not so happy person. I don't remember when was the last time I felt really happy. Maybe it is the feminism thingy. The "I have the right to.." which brings me away from being someone who gives everything all the time to someone who demands. I don't know. I know I have my support system around me but truth is, they have their own expectations on me. Cos I am the mommy sigh. Khadijah ra must be the happiest woman.  a successful businesswoman,  had her own business. married the Prophet and had kids. She must be busier than ever but I don't remember reading any narration about her not being happy. How did she cope with that? did she have her own servant? was the Prophet sharing her burden?I remember the story about Fatimah ra who came to the Prophet telling him about how tired she was managing her household affairs. This issue had been there forever. And I really do not know how they ...