There's a reason why 2 people stay together: they give each other something nobody else can

stressful I know I mentioned in previous post that I've been doing well but apparently, I said it way too soon I caught bad cough and chest pain and flu on Monday When I saw Dr Fauzi on Tuesday he said it's early bronchitis and it got worse on Wednesday with high fever and bad headache and I was on leave for 4 days straight since Monday I'm guessing my boss is starting to hate me. as if I'm having so much excuses. and my sick leave has been used entirely so now I need to use my annual leave to replace the mc then hubs got his cough back. and Hannan got some of it too I'm just spreading the virus :( I'm also finding it hard to get good sleep nowadays even after consuming the "notorious" flu and cough medicine, I still can't sleep well it's getting uncomfortable to sleep with the current size I guess and I know because of all the above hubby is also getting stressed :( I'm sorry "Indeed, Allah [alone] has knowledge o...

There is a right way and a wrong way to get to know someone for marriage.  The wrong way is to get caught up in the excitement and nuance of a budding relationship and in the process completely forget to ask the critical questions that help determine compatibility.  One of the biggest mistakes that many young Muslims make is rushing into marriage without properly and  thoroughly  getting to know someone.  A common myth is that the duration of a courtship is an accurate enough measure of how compatible two people are.  The logic follows that the longer you speak with someone, the better you will know them.  The problem with that premise is that no consideration is given to  how  that time is spent. Increasingly, young Muslim couples are engaging in “halal dating,” which is basically socializing with each other in the company of friends and/or family. This includes going out to dinner, watching a movie, playing some sport or other leisure acti...

Clap! Clap! Never thought I'll pass week 35 and even Dr Seri commented.."wow..you're already 36 weeks!" Like totally unbelievable Okay..so going through additional week means additional weight for me (insert cry here) and baby z - 2.9kg already (gulp) And cramps here n there.. Plus flu and cough here n there..but still okay.. Walking very much like penguin most of the time haha And since week 35 everyday I've been waking up asking "is today going to be the day?" Very much suspense unlike first pregnancy I feel so bad for baby z because of so much expectations and anticipations from previous experience Sorry syg..I really hope I'm not stressing you Anyway hubby is totally down with fever flu and headache and chills.. and when he said he wanted to see doctor, I know it's bad.. Hope you recover real soon hubs..

my ex boss is always the relax type kinda guy he was regularly late to the office then lunch he'll rush back to fetch his kids and he'll usually back on the dot in the evening I always thought that he was not taking his job seriously and I thought he was behaving that way because he depended so much on me but now I have to say that I am now, becoming him now I understand that when you have kids, your entire world just change your top priority is no longer your job it's always your child. your family

Happy 26 months sayang! You are now at the stage where you like to count things and it's a routine that you count your fingers before you sleep and you never fail to make ummi laugh with your funny tune "kakak hannan ye.." especially when you see your cousin embun and you like to use adjectives nowadays you would stand by the car window (btw, you like to sit at the back lately..or rather..going to the front and back of the car..) and say "woahh..big cloud.." or "woahh..big cars.." or "big thunder" or "big azan" yes everything is big you recognize shapes, thanks to the mr. maker  shapes song video in youtube and always ask ummi/daddy to draw them "ummi/daddy..draw.. act-tangle (rectangle)/ curl (circle) / kai-angle (triangle)/ quare (square)" and you really emphasize when you don't want something like "ummi..dowan dowan dowan rice " yes, "dowan" up to 3 times if you want something you...

Hannan has been having diarrhea/loose stool for 1 week already but she's not having fever or vomiting etc appears active. drinking as usual. no signs of dehydration less rice intake but replacing it with bread and chicken been to nearby clinic.doc seemed not worried at all because of the above but she prescribed medicine anyway. the white color syrup. and ointment for her nappy rash. that's all but she's still having loose stool esp during sleep (like 2 or 3 times) it's puzzling us update: we gave her yoghurt for 2 days in a row as it is said to be a good cure for diarrhea. alhamdulillah.. princess recovered completely

Hello baby z at 35 weeks I've been waiting for this week since Hannan was a 35-weeker *hint hint to baby z (ummi so not staying true to her words in previous blog post giving time to baby z bla bla..pls ummi stop stressing baby z) anyway nothing new at this stage except the fact that I'm getting bigger rounder larger (what's new) can't fit into some jubah (JUBAH OKAY) already hubs was questioning me yesterday "takkan satu pun baju yg bergosok kat almari tu x muat?" when he saw me ironing a loose shirt muat dear.tapi too fitting already. don't like showing my "curves" at this point of time thank you. x cantik. if cantik I don't mind huhu sometimes I feel pain below there already.few minutes. then it goes away sometimes I feel the throbbing also down there. probably baby z is having hiccups. probably the uterus is doing some work down there. I don't know sometimes feeling nauseous. sometimes too tired. oh ya.at this stage, u...

I just feel that people who lie to you actually undermine your intellectual capability simply put, they regard you as stupid